Working full-time, being a mom, school, dealing with finances and issues that fall into the OTHER/MISC category– mix all of that with a good dose of self-doubt and you’ve got the ingredients for one grumpy mama. I’m also dead tired.
We've had some beautiful weather lately so I decided to take Peyton to the park and because of my hazy, foggy day of dead tired doom, Peyton got ice cream for dinner. Yep, you heard right. Ice cream for dinner. Oh and the happy couples were out in full force.
I sat there watching them, there were the ones just at the start of their relationships, then there were the veterans and the happily married couples. The spark isn't new, but it was there, so wise and sure. And then a rolling ball and a little body about to run into the open parking lot snaps me out of it. While balancing a steaming chai tea latte (yes it was one of those days) I grabbed her with my free hand and caught the ball with my foot before it rolled over the curb and not a drop spilt. Mom reflexes, either emotional or physical, are a force to be reckoned with.
But even those butt-kicking motherly reflexes can’t save me from the occassional bad day.
Today was one of them. I needed someone to care. Someone to try to lift my spirits because I couldn’t lift my own. Pointless thoughts. Annoying thoughts. Then, after the park, after the ice cream and after her bath and as we were getting ready for bed, an amazing thing happened. It happens on a daily basis, but today was different. Peyton walks over and gives me the biggest hug and kiss and says, "I love you mommy". She cupped my face in her hands, looked me straight in the eye and said "it's okay mama."
All is right in the world. Bad day is over now. Thanking the world for Peyton. Don’t worry about me, this funk will be lost in my dreams. Cheers to tomorrow and to all you parents, single, married, divorced – because this ain’t easy. May we each find our way, whichever way that may be and no matter how tired or grumpy we may be when we get there. Some days are better than others...here's for hoping tomorrow is one of the better ones!
I sat there watching them, there were the ones just at the start of their relationships, then there were the veterans and the happily married couples. The spark isn't new, but it was there, so wise and sure. And then a rolling ball and a little body about to run into the open parking lot snaps me out of it. While balancing a steaming chai tea latte (yes it was one of those days) I grabbed her with my free hand and caught the ball with my foot before it rolled over the curb and not a drop spilt. Mom reflexes, either emotional or physical, are a force to be reckoned with.
But even those butt-kicking motherly reflexes can’t save me from the occassional bad day.
Today was one of them. I needed someone to care. Someone to try to lift my spirits because I couldn’t lift my own. Pointless thoughts. Annoying thoughts. Then, after the park, after the ice cream and after her bath and as we were getting ready for bed, an amazing thing happened. It happens on a daily basis, but today was different. Peyton walks over and gives me the biggest hug and kiss and says, "I love you mommy". She cupped my face in her hands, looked me straight in the eye and said "it's okay mama."
All is right in the world. Bad day is over now. Thanking the world for Peyton. Don’t worry about me, this funk will be lost in my dreams. Cheers to tomorrow and to all you parents, single, married, divorced – because this ain’t easy. May we each find our way, whichever way that may be and no matter how tired or grumpy we may be when we get there. Some days are better than others...here's for hoping tomorrow is one of the better ones!